It is worth it Dad

I recently shared the results of a premortem exercise for someone sitting on the fence about becoming the primary caregiver for their young family. While I stand by many of the real risks, I was left with a rather pessimistic feeling. That has driven me back to create a companion list to examine the bright side of being home every day. Once again, in no particular order:

There is no such thing as a good walk spoiled: As you walk with your child, you'll cover some incredible ground. It’ll begin with a stroller or front pack, but soon enough, you’ll have a friend stepping right beside you. Sometimes, it’ll be a quiet walk. Other times, it’ll be filled with imaginative stories and curious questions. If you’re lucky, you’ll even splash in a puddle along the way. Just don’t step on any LEGOS, and you’ll be fine!

You get to be curious, really curious: Forget your news feed. The algorithm has you all figured out, and it’s no longer attractive. Watch a child get interested in something. Better yet, talk to a child about their interests. Explore and learn as much as you can. Let their imagination guide the way.

Play is serious fun: We all need more play in our lives. It’s a natural urge that we should all indulge in. Pediatricians are even considering prescribing play for everyone under 2. But why stop there? The developmental benefits for the brain and body are immense. Best of all, the bonding that follows will be beyond your wildest imagination. 

Cooking together is a teachable moment: I am a major proponent of using the home as a learning environment for the family. Time is well spent when it’s spent nurturing and encouraging young minds. When you can take a few extra minutes and forget all about efficiency, you can teach the healthy habit of cooking. Teach your family how to solve one of their most basic needs: eating. Not every meal needs to be fast.

A warm breakfast is a love language: If I can wake up before anyone else and start breakfast (and the coffee, too), they’ll eat a little slower and breathe a little deeper before the day begins. They will know they’re loved on those days when the morning rush is traded for a couple of pancakes.